tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post3913676065753333623..comments2023-10-10T03:04:15.570-07:00Comments on Grace was Calling and I Didn't Pick up: The Trouble With ParadiseKathy M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/17266701533758183054noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-59352487526413256362010-05-30T08:16:37.916-07:002010-05-30T08:16:37.916-07:00I love how you said that "being humbled made ...I love how you said that "being humbled made me teachable". The biggest thing I had to overcome when I came into program was my ego. I thought I was smarter than everyone else and it took being broken down into complete surrender for me to listen. Stubborn girl! Now I am careful, like yourself, because I realize that when start feeling good, I become the teacher instead of the student, and that is when I get myself into trouble. Good thing is that I have learned that I don't have to be perfect, and as long as I learn a new lesson each time I hit the wall, well then, I guess I'm ok with that. Thanks for your post.Hummingbirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14805638394135632906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-72621728008164029052010-05-27T05:20:24.684-07:002010-05-27T05:20:24.684-07:00"I can only keep working on my intention by r..."I can only keep working on my intention by reminding myself that I only get a daily reprieve based on my spiritual condition, and by realizing that life will not always feel this way."<br /><br />wonderful summation of your whole post. <br /><br /><br />Ihave to conintually emind myself that it's okay to feel down some days, that I'm allowed to be human and that it's expected that I will not always remember everything in the program perfectly.Shenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635993168913490929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-1628209316305265622010-05-27T05:06:34.351-07:002010-05-27T05:06:34.351-07:00I really like this post. The pastor story is so f...I really like this post. The pastor story is so funny. God has been working over the last year on this one subject with me. He has me doing things that no one knows about. Do you know how hard it is not to tell anyone? This shows me what a work in progress I am. If I was humble, I would not need to tell, right? So, off we go, one day at a time...... asking Him for the grace to be humble. It goes against my "prideful" nature. <br /><br />I agree with you about the temptation to take credit for what God has done. <br /><br />Trying to live for His glory alone....some days are better than others.<br /><br />I thank God He is so patient and merciful.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />TammyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-90656866870050537552010-05-26T19:57:20.931-07:002010-05-26T19:57:20.931-07:00When things are going well, I tend to forget my pa...When things are going well, I tend to forget my pain and also let my guard down when it comes to expectations. I have to remember that dealing with the cunning, baffling and powerful disease of alcoholism can bring me to my knees at any moment. Great post. Enjoy your weekend.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-3589952024765303572010-05-26T18:35:02.975-07:002010-05-26T18:35:02.975-07:00I am so grateful that I went through the breaking ...I am so grateful that I went through the breaking process. I learned more from that process than anything else in my entire life...like the power of prayer, and exactly how powerless I really am which once I accepted that fact, it ended up being such a relief! I still get tripped up of course and have to find my way back...but at least now I have a program and a road map. <br /><br />Anyway, all of that is to say great post!! I can relate to so much and appreciate you sharing it so eloquently. Also, thank you for the very kind comments you leave on my blog. I always really appreciate your insights and your words.Annettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-80980429231144131102010-05-26T14:00:23.754-07:002010-05-26T14:00:23.754-07:00hi kathy~ you often speak of humility and i apprec...hi kathy~ you often speak of humility and i appreciate the ways you point out that it is helpful. you're so right. it can help us remember that everything is not up to us, and when things don't work out as they sometimes don't, that it's ok. that it's ok to surrender and relax and accept life as it is. <br /><br />but one other thing struck me about your post here. i'm reminded of how when things are going well, i start to worry that they're going "too well" which i think is another sad effect of growing up in a dysfunctional or alcoholic home. we're taught not to get too comfortable. not to enjoy the good times. because we know something bad is about to happen. <br /><br />so i just wanted to say, that along with the reminder of humility and the acceptance of the fact that it's ok that things may not always be great. to say also, that i think it's great that you've been doing so well lately. and i think it's ok to enjoy that. and to feel proud of the work you have done. you have worked so hard and it looks like you've started to see results. which doesn't sound arrogant to me. it sounds encouraging. that the program does indeed work. it doesn't mean you're not humble, if you allow yourself to enjoy the moments when you feel at peace. <br /><br />hugs to you :)me as i amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14709343968813770150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-4446256823021635172010-05-26T11:32:13.422-07:002010-05-26T11:32:13.422-07:00Like you say, all you can do is work your program ...Like you say, all you can do is work your program one day at a time with no expectations. I hope you enjoy your weekend with your hubby. Hugs.CiCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08615265608675467505noreply@blogger.com