tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post3192128615028477776..comments2023-10-10T03:04:15.570-07:00Comments on Grace was Calling and I Didn't Pick up: More on all thatKathy M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/17266701533758183054noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-50295607124350827472010-01-05T17:36:34.998-08:002010-01-05T17:36:34.998-08:00Hey there, you are a brave soul indeed, accepting ...Hey there, you are a brave soul indeed, accepting and allowing help with this. I can see amazing recovery and new life ahead for you, as well as healing. <br />Until I read your Intro just now where you explained about what Al-Alnon calls Dropping the rope, I had no idea that that was exactly what I had done when I made my alcoholic husband move out in may last year.<br />We still live separate but want to be together. I see a counsellor but have not taken the step to go to Al-Alnon, yet...<br />I just txt him about the dropping the rope and he replied that he thought it was just called 'kicking the bastard out cause you are sick of him'. I said that works, as well.<br />Glad I found your site. Take careTheUndertakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12316547511892258854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-44111103279500063452010-01-05T14:05:15.048-08:002010-01-05T14:05:15.048-08:00Very nice update Bug! *hugs* Love you.Very nice update Bug! *hugs* Love you.Dorothy F. Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07726231846622344573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-63925800937285320132010-01-05T11:00:50.209-08:002010-01-05T11:00:50.209-08:00Amazing how much a sponsor can help. It sounds li...Amazing how much a sponsor can help. It sounds like you have a good one. What freedom to get rid of that committee in the brain...Garnethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11734142123169684500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-33087222880233650612010-01-05T07:10:33.900-08:002010-01-05T07:10:33.900-08:00Hi Kathy,
Thanks for breaking down all the crazine...Hi Kathy,<br />Thanks for breaking down all the craziness that goes on inside my head sometimes. <br />I love that we have choices now and so do they. :)<br />Blessings,<br />TammyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795313202070429109.post-49468459532891000532010-01-05T06:43:13.222-08:002010-01-05T06:43:13.222-08:00You and your sponsor have a good rapport. I used t...You and your sponsor have a good rapport. I used to do what you wrote here--be angry and resentful, but still do it. Never voice my concerns, just expect the alcoholic to read my mind and know how hurt I was.<br /><br />That was martyr behavior, and did absolutely nothing to lesson the demands my son put on me. Much to my surprise, when I started saying no, it worked. How could I know, as I had never said no!<br /><br />Good post, Kathy!Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214noreply@blogger.com